Undervalued or am I just whining?

16 years of marriage, and I received a paper pickle birthday card from my husband (nothing else), now I'm very used to getting nothing from him, he's busy and forgets, I don't stand on ceremony and don't even care about valentines. But getting this card made me feel like SH** . I felt so undervalued, but considering the lack of gifts throughout the years I just might be whiny without justification.What do you think? BTW I gave this exact same card to my 15 year old nephew but he at least got a 20 dollar bill in it.